Sleep Paralysis: A Mythical Monster or A Psychiatric Illness

In cold night in December I was in deep sleep when suddenly my sleep got interrupted and I was awakened. I tried to get up to check the time when I noticed that I wasn't able to move. I tried but I was not even able to move my fingers. I don't remember whether I've opened my eyes or not but Yes I was fully alert and suddenly I felt a weight on my chest, as like someone was sitting on my chest and was trying to choke me. I became breathless, gasping for air, trying to pull out the weight on my chest, got anxious and tried every ways to help myself but it was like someone has restricted my arms and legs. After a couple of minutes in struggle I was finally freed I suddenly sat on the bed, was breathing with my open mouth in order to inhale as much oxygen as I can, My forhead was soaked in cold sweat and there was a heaviness on my chest as if someone has just stood up from my chest. I calmed myself, sipped some water, recited some prayers, and again went to bed. While thinking about the recent event I was drifted to sleep. 

Folklores regarding Sleep Paralysis -

1) Descendants of Lillith: Lillith or 

     She-demon is referred in the Summerian King list of 2400 BC, where Lillith was considered a Vampire and a Harlot, the "Beautiful Maiden" where once she chose a man, he is Her's Forever. 

                           Lillith

In The Bible, Isaiah 34:14, she is referred to as "Screech Owl", i.e a creature of the night where she haunted Good Women who were childbearing. 

Lillith bore 4 children, one of four succubi or Vampire-like Demon named Lilliu preyed on Men while they were asleep while other three Subbus named Lillitu or She-demon had nocturnal union with Men.

                      

                      Succubus

2) "The Nightmare":

Swiss artist Henry Fuseli, protrayed the phenomena through painting, "The Nightmare" in which a young lady lies limply sprawled across her bed, and an Incubus is squatting gortesquely on her stomach as in to draw her into the darkest nightmare. The painting is the best potrayel of clinical presentation of Sleep Paralysis. 

3) The Old Hag: 

Old Hag or Night Hag is the name given to Nightmare in Cannadian and North Eastern America. Hag was actually seen as mystical creatures, as a Spirit, Goddess and in some folklores as Witches who takes the form of Gorsteque or Hideous Old Woman, and often had a power over the  Elements or Magic. They have gained both Fear and Respect in equal lengths by the Superstitions.

There are many superstition or beliefs spread worldwide regarding Sleep paralysis. 

Let's now dive in towards Scientific Reasons:

Sleep Paralysis-

Sleep Paralysis is one of the example of Sleep-wake Disorders. During sleep, brain cycles through 4 stages of sleep:

Stage 1-3 known as Non-rapid Eye Movement (NREM) 

Stage 4 known as Rapid Eye Movement (REM) or Paradoxical Sleep.

Brain releases some waves which is detected by Electroencephalography (EEG) in which it signals the muscles to relax. "When there is a dysfunctional synchronization between the signals of Brain and relaxation of muscles, it leads to Sleep Paralysis." 

Muscles are "Turned off" during REM sleep phase. If any person's brain get activated and alert during the REM phase then that person will experience Sleep Paralysis. 

Types of Sleep Paralysis:

Sleep Paralysis is divided into 2 parts-

1) Hypnagogic or Pre-dormital.               sleep paralysis- It is a phase before body shifts into deep sleep. 

Body relaxes slowly, usually less aware around the surroundings. However, if someone remains or become aware while falling asleep, it may notice that one cannot move or speak. 

2) Hypnopompic or Post-dormital sleep paralysis- During sleep, body alters between REM and NREM sleep. One cycle of REM and NREM sleep last about 90 minutes.

NREM sleep occur first and take upto 75% of overall sleep time. During NREM sleep, body relaxes and restores itself. At the end of NREM sleep body shifts to REM. 

During REM sleep eyes moves quickly and dreams occur, but the rest of the body remain relaxed. During this phase for any reason if the brain cells get activated making someone alert it will be noticed that one will be fully aware of the surroundings but still cannot move it's body parts which lead to experience "Sleep Paralysis".

As every muscles is relaxed the diaphragmatic muscles and respiratory centres are also relaxed, so when someone is awake during REM phase it'll be noticed that one will have Trouble Breathing, Gasping for air and may also experience that something is weighted on their chest adding more trouble in breathing. 

As the brain is not fully alert or in active phase, it leads to imagine distorted images which lead to a person experiencing Visual Haullicination. That's why some claim that they saw a Demon or felt like someone is squatting on their chest trying to choke them. 

Reasons for experiencing sleep paralysis-

1) Lack of sleep. 

2) Disturbed sleep schedule.

3) Mental condition such stress or            Bipolar disorder. 

4) Sleeping on the back. 

5) Night time leg cramps. 

6) Narcolepsy ( a kind of sleep disorder in which a person is drowsy in day time even when he sleeps for 8-10 hrs during night).

7) Substance Abuse ( Alocoholic, Tobacco Consumer, drug addict etc.) 

Treatment-

1) Improve sleep Habits.

2) Treat mental health issues. 

3) If dealing with depression use anti-       depressants drugs. 

4) If dealing with Narcolepsy consult to nearest Psychologist and Psychiatrist. 

A Bully: The Hidden Demon

 Have you ever got bullied? 

We all know the story of a victim, but what about the Hunter? 

Have you ever thought what goes inside the bully's mind? 

Adolescent Temper Tantrums

Temper Tantrum 

Parenting is one of the Most difficult task in the existing task in this world. Now your Sweet Calm child has drastically changed into a Subborn, Aggressive person. Every individual go through this stage of adolescence. Adolscent is a Blossoming phase where an individual's body is preparing itself to turn into an Adult. Adolescents not only go through Physical changes but also Mental changes. 

Not everyone is easily adaptable to change, to some people "Changes are Scary" and it's Normal. We all get sometimes scared by changes,while dealing with changes which occur within themselves,individual also get to tackle day-to-day obstacles like:

- School and Assignments 

- Educational Achievements

- Thriving for parent's expectations 

- Adjusting themselves to Peer groups. 

Woaah! While dealing with soooo much they also go through physical, and mental changes. While being busy in their own stuffs when they turn towards someone who can understand them. They Find No one!  So they turn themselves to their peers. If they are in good company they'll get help but if not then What? 

They can turn them to activities that can drastically affect their health, social life and can even be drawn to perform criminal activities which can drag them to complete darkness. 

I know that There's generation difference between a Parent and Child but if you really Love your child and don't want them to be drag into darkness then follow these 6 Steps:

1) Be a Friend: 

If you want your child to be honest and open to you then you've to be your child's Friend. I understand that there's a Generation difference between You and and Your Child but you also need to understand, that time has evolved. The phase which you were facing in your adulthood might be your adolscent child be facing right now. Try to get involve in your child's life that doesn't mean you've to interfere in all his matters. 

Believe your child. Develop the bond where your child can trust you and is able to ventilate out all his problems, insecurities with you. 

Where it's necessary Hold their Hands where not let them take their own path. Even if they fail encourage them and tell them "Even if the Whole world is against them you'll always be by their side." 

When you develop such bond the tendancy of your child to fall in prey of others decreases and even if there's a bit chance he'll let you know and you can save your child from becoming a prey or a victim. 

2) Importance of Trust: 

Trust is the most Vital Element to build any relation. Teach the importance of Trust to your teen. And when they obligate that trust then let them face their consequences. 

My intention is not to "Spoon-feed" your child this way you'll ruin his future. It's very important for your child to face life experiences and also face it's consequences. For example: If you got to know that your child was taking alcohol. After your encounter he promised to never repeat this mistake. After few days you again caught him taking alcohol secretly then it's important that you let him know that he broke your trust. Let him understand his fault and ask him How will he develop the trust again??  Questioning him will help him understand his fault and will help him introspect his fault. 

3) Be your child's Influencer: 

Set Yourself an example for your child. 

- If you're stoping him to stop wasting time on screen then first stop yourself from spending a lot of your time on social sites and other stuffs.

- Being alcoholic or drug abuser parent what guidance you'll provide to your child if he ever step on being a drug user? 

- Not only your behavior but your child also follows your Mentality. The way you see world and people around affect your reaction towards your outer world in form of your behavior and this trait is mimicked by your child. 

- Be open-minded, be Gentle to the people who are inferior, Be a learner. 

- One important point I'll add is Show your struggle to your child. Let them know that you sacrificed your new dress in order to buy them their toys. I know parents refrain such act but you need to understand that if you want your child to respect each penny which you earned or which he'll be earning no matter what his socioeconomic status be then Show him your struggle, Your Sacrifices and Hard work which you dedicate each second of your life in order to provide him one time meal.  

Why you think Rich people have Rich Brats?? Because they have no idea how their parents hold such Assets. They have just seen luxuries and Comfort which is Dangerous for their later Life. 

4) Appreciate and provide positive reinforcement to your Child:

Study your child and accept him with all his beauty and flaws. There are many parents who don't know their child. Yes! You Heard Right!! Reason? Well because they don't have time for their child. Here's I'm not potraying Workaholic Parents as Vamp! But you need to spend ample amount of time with your child. Earning money to secure your child's future is every parent's task, but Will that money be helpful to save your child from becoming a Victim to this cruel world? 

The more you spend your time with your child the more you'll know his quality, interest and hobbies. 

In this 21st Century, there's nothing from which you can't earn. So let your child discover his passion and motivate him to pursue it as his career. 

5) Understand that Teens are Self-centered:

Growing up was never easy. Adolescent goes through many ups and down. Physical, Hormonal and Mental alterations that changes their life. This is a new phase in their life and there are many adjustments that require a preparation. While the adolescents are preparaing themselves for the new changes they take a lot of time and hence tend to become self-centered. This is the phase where every teenage thinks that no-one understands them so Be little Patient and hold your child whenever they need you. 

6) Signs of Stress:

Being Bullied is one of the most common stressor in adolscent's life. Parents should keep a keen observation in your child's sudden behavior. 

If your child has suddenly become aloof, spending alone time, has crying spells, caught red handed while stealing money or other valuable product then instead of screaming find the reason behind it. It might be due to being bullied. 

Other stressors can be:

* School work load. 

* Assignments 

* Educational Achievement 

* Heartbreaks. 

Take seriously your child's stress as bing in denial or deviating your child's stress can lead to Depression. 

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How Toilet Training can affect your Child's behavior and Personality????

 

"Parents are our First Teacher and Home is our First School" it's a very common belief. Have you ever thought that the training which you give to your child in early days of their Life can affect their Latter Stages of their life?

 It can alter their ways of Thinking, Behavoir and can even modify their Personality?

Toilet Training is the teaching where  parents demonstrate ways to help their child learn ways to defecate. Toilet training usually starts at the early age range from 18 months to 3 Years. 

Now You might be thinking that you all have undergone this stage and somewhere someone might be training their child to defecate, then 

• How could your or your child's  behavior dependent on it??
•     Whether its affecting in Good or Bad ways??                         
• And most importantly,  how come you have not noticed any behavioral change in your child?? 

  Well here's the answer to your queries. It has affected your child's behavior not only your Child but after reading the latter context You can also match some of your behavior traits that can be related to your Toilet Training.

According to Psychosexual Developmental Theory given by Sigmund Freud states that "The major task in the Anal Stage(18 months-3 Years) is gaining Independance and control with particular focus on the "Excretory Function" which implies that the ways and techniques which Parents use on their child while toilet training affects their behavior as the child learns Independance and Control during this stage and if the child learns anything incorrectly then his or her behavior will be adversely affected.  

           Sigmund Freud divided the training in 2 phases:

1. Anal-Retentive Personality:  If the parents have Early started the Toilet training i.e before 18 months or If the parents have given Harsh Training then the child is more likely to develop Anal-Retentive Personality.                                                                                  Characteristics of Anal-Retentive Personality:                                          Obsessively tidy and clean.               Intolerant to those who aren't.         Punctual.                                              Very Careful.                                         Stingy.                                                     Obstinate.                                             Witholding.                                         Meticulous.                                        Passive aggressive                                                                              
2. Anal-Expulsive Personality: If the parents were too liberal during the toilet training the child likely to develop Anal-Expulsive Personality.       

Characteristics of Anal-Expulsive        Personality:                                                   Excessively Sloppy.                                     Disorganized.                                              Reckless.                                                      Careless.                                                        Defiant.                                                          

Conclusion:

    In this above context we got the information regarding How Toilet Training affects Your child's Personality. If not given attention or care towards it how behavoral and Personality alterations can affect your child.

Anything Over or Under its limit leads to Maladaptive Behavior. 

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